Is it worse to escape or to run away from something?
Is it better to fight or to confront to anything definitely?
Is there any fear to be isolated or to be a village odori?
An inquiry by some 13 years old girl, " Why is it wrong to escape, any beasts go away from things unpleasant or dangerous?" moved me so much.
The cultural society has a tendency not to recommend evasion, for example, a soldier who escaped from strategy front is easily killed with rifle shooting done not by the enemy but by friendly force.
Are we obliged to obey blindly the unexplainable manners and customs in peaceful days here now? Of course I know that, in order to keep some group in peaceful condition, there must be any decisions to be followed, person who cannot accept the Law would be isolated or be bounced off. We often stand on the point to choose, stay or escape. A safest way of living in a group is obeying and following the Law, thinking, saying and behaving the same as others.
A person who do not accept decided manners and customs should leave the group.
Incidents and conflicts happen in a Family Society in the World. Probably, he or she would see another comfortable world outside after that.
So, we don't have any reason to deny to run away, to leave or to escape however difficult to do that in a settlement society.
Evasion is worse?
